I certainly hope all our friends and family had a very blessed and happy Christmas. I always miss our family so much during this time of year.
As for us TX Rumfelts, we survived another holiday season. When I was little I remember our Christmas Eve tradition was going over to my grandparents house and having homemade southern chicken and dumplings and then opening Christmas presents from them. They always made a really big deal about it for the kids and we all sat in a circle and took turns. Those are special memories for me, but hard to carry on out here by ourselves. I have been thinking for years what I want our night before Christmas traditions to be and finally figured it out. Our traditional Christmas Eve dinner will be homemade TX tamales (not made by me - there is another story there). After attending Christmas Eve church service we will make a fire in the fireplace, put on a Christmas movie, have a holiday cocktail (eggnog or such), and read Eli a Christmas story before bed. Sounds so nice. Well...that may be just a future fantasy.
Here was the reality of our Christmas Eve this year. I started feeling like I was coming down with the flu during the course of the day on Tuesday. I woke up Wednesday (Christmas Eve) at 5:00 a.m. and started to get ready to go to the bakery. I was already late really, the bakers had been there since 3:00 a.m. (again). Eli woke up at 5:30 - which is not normal - crying that his nose was stuffy. I gave him some Robitussin and hoped that he would settle back to sleep...he didn't. The babysitter arrived at the house around 7:00 a.m. and, as Aaron and I began to leave, Eli started crying that he wanted to go with us. Aaron and I left the house and I was feeling sick and depressed.
We went to the bakery and worked our fannies off from 7:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. It took four Theraflus for me to get through the day. (On the bright side we had a great day sales-wise.) Eli was waiting for us at our church b/c his babysitter works in the nursery there. We wanted to attend the 6:30 service and the best thing would have been to leave Eli in the nursery and pick him up when the service was over. I missed him so much, though, (we had not seen him all day!) and I decided to let him come up to service and sit with us. He was so tired, I really thought he might sit between us and fall asleep Ha! He was in that overtired crazy state. He was lying on the pews, jumping on the kneel rail thingy, talking loud, whatever he could do to embarrass us.
One funny thing happened after we had taken him up with us for communion (and a blessing for him). He did not want to leave the alter....he kept saying he wanted to go back up there. We were telling him no, we had to go back to our seats. After some back and forth arguing he exclaims, "I am so mad at you!" and started stomping dramatically towards the other end of the church. He was wearing boots and the floor of our church is stone so the sound was echoing with every stomp. He blew past our pew and kept on going, going, going. Aaron and I looked at each other like, "what the heck is he doing?" Then he stormed into the broom/water heater closet that is located at the very back of the church. I guess he thought it was an exit and that he was going to storm out of the church. Aaron and I could not help but start laughing. It was the kind of laughing that you try to hold back b/c you realize it is not appropriate which makes you want to laugh even more.
After church we rode around looking at some of the Christmas lights and decorations. We got home and I promptly tried to get our tired boy to bed. I even lay down beside him hoping he would go to sleep faster. When I opened my eyes I was lying on top of the bed still wearing my buttoned winter coat. Eli was fast asleep and it was 11:30 p.m. I missed Christmas Eve entirely! What a bummer.
Christmas was nice, though. We all enjoyed being home as a family, and not working. I have heard Eli say more times than I can count over the past few days that he is "so happy". He is big on expressing his emotions right now. I think he has been so happy that we have been spending time together. I am so happy, too.
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